Marriages – Tina from the blog “since we met” writes on freundin.de about their wedding and reveals future brides tips around the subject of marriage. Should this time:How to find the right wedding dress – and what things you observe while shopping
“You will feel when it’s the right dress.” – I heard this phrase countless times of my married girlfriends I me came on the search for the perfect wedding dress. Frankly, I thought that with the “feel” of humbug. My girlfriends but remained here: “Tina, you will feel it and be safe.” Well, I thought, if I feel it now or just the look confirms it me in the mirror: main thing I find the right dress.
After our engagement, I let weeks pass before I finally agreed to an appointment in the wedding dress studio. I thought “Only no stress”. Finally, there were still months before the wedding. My relaxed approach brought my married friends to despair. They already knew in wedding planning, and knew that buying a wedding dress on the last minute.
When I then end of February (our wedding date was early August) in the wedding dress Studio, called the Lady confirmed me at the other end of the line, that I was something “less than”. You say so: you not too late start the search for your perfect wedding dress!
The best shopping accompaniment
After an appointment to try on the calendar was, new questions asked to me: “Who take I to try?” and “How should my dress ever look?”
I invaded four persons, that I wanted to have the fitting of this: two of my girlfriends, my sister and my mother. All of them women, who know me and my style well and I put much value on their criticisms and suggestions. Five to go, the fitting is also somewhat dangerous, because five people five different opinions mean at worst. I recommend you: you take with familiar people, in whose presence you feel good, sometimes slow and say “This dress doesn’t”, but at the same time not their own ideas impose you.
The right wedding dress – get inspired
Before the appointment to try on the item was held, I went on the Internet (especially on Pinterest) on the search for clothes. I now had a fairly accurate idea of what my dress should look like. Difficult, however, I found that barely rates were to be found on the Internet at well known wedding gown labels. The danger to fall, in dresses that are outside of the budget, is there quite large.
On the day of fitting my sister had packed in her bag a bottle of sparkling wine and we headed on the path to the fitting. The seller took us in a separate space in which we all took place. The range of bridal gowns slew me. My tip: set your budget for your wedding gown before the date for trial fitting. This simplifies the search since your appointment then only clothes, you see that you can afford.
The saleswoman, I showed pictures of the clothes, which I had found on the Internet and together we chose six dresses I tried on and gradually. It was followed by moments in which my companions and I had to laugh, when I came to the dress from the locker room. But there were also clothes that pleased me very well. And what was that about “Tracking”? Had I felt it when I moved to the right dress? Put this way: I was not struck by lightning or heard voices, which told me “This and no other.” But I felt in a certain dress better than the others. It fit me, I felt not covered in it and liked it also all present. Funny because: It not so looked like the clothes that I had picked out in advance on the Internet.
The wedding dress Blues
The following day, what I would call “Dress Blues” followed: I looked at the pictures of my wedding dress me on my cell phone – and then came the tears. Not for joy, but fear that I had chosen the wrong dress. Resolved and my girlfriends I sought advice. My already married friend comforted me by saying that it was normal and she also had such thoughts at their wedding. My other friend asked me which of the dresses tried on I had felt most comfortable. My answers came from the FF: “NA in the one I bought.” I had to leave for nothing so unsettle me.
In the next few weeks, I asked my fiance again and again as he imagined my dress and what would rather I didn’t notice him. He not let no tip and also “this tulle’. And now guess what looked like my dress? Because I now know that my dress was the right thing for me, which no longer brought me from the rest. My tip: Let not to unsettle the statements made by your future. We know women still the best what’s in us.
Finishing and accessories
In the following weeks, my dress was adjusted in length (you don’t necessarily your Bridal Shoes for the cutters to the proper length) and I chose even the matching accessories to. Five days before the wedding I picked it up and kept it on my mother. The danger that my husband would discover it when it hung in the closet at home, was too large.
I hope that I with could give a few helpful tips along the way and wish you much fun in finding the perfect bridal gown.
If you want to know who here writes: read more about Tina from the blog here “since we met”.